Today as my husband and I celebrate 21 years of Marriage, I have a question for you Today!! So many times we think of giving when it comes to money, but giving is a “heart” issue. It’s also about giving of yourself to others! But this post is pertaining to MARRIAGE!
QUESTION: Are you “giving” your spouse the very best of you in your marriage? Can you really say that you’re “giving” your ALL in your marriage as unto the Lord? A question that God asked me 2 weeks ago and I must admit, I’ve become lax! I believe this is a question that every married person should ask themselves and here’s why....
MARRIAGE IS A BLOOD COVENANT!
Marriage is a “blood covenant” unto God (well at least it’s supposed to be)! God ordained marriage unto death! Back in biblical days as they consummated the marriage, if it wasn’t any blood on them sheets...OMG (well that’s another message...LOL)😧😮 BUT....Your mate should NOT feel as if they have to go outside of the marriage covenant to get their needs met. It’s your responsibility as a wife/husband to meet the needs of your spouse!! It’s a horrible feeling to be married and still be lonely! It’s an awful feeling to be married and still feel like you desire to be loved! It’s a dreadful feeling to hate to come home to your spouse because you know there’s going to be nothing but strife, confusion, turmoil and chaos! It’s a painful feeling to know that your spouse is physically there, but yet emotionally they’re soooo far, far away! It’s a miserable feeling to feel like you can’t connect with your spouse and you have absolutely nothing in common but the bills! It’s a grievous feeling to be completely turned off from your spouse because they fail to be to you who they were in the beginning of the marriage! It’s a devastating feeling for one spouse to grow, mature, increase and shift while the other spouse refuses to change! THIS IS NOT THE WAY GOD DESIGNED MARRIAGE TO BE!!!! God desires that you have an exciting, fruitful, passionate, happy, peaceful marriage!! Like for real, for real!
So many marriages are failing because they REFUSE to honor their spouses! They refuse to obey, honor and SUBMIT to God in the marriage covenant! Men refuse to really LOVE their wives the way God commanded! Men...you are the initiator. Come on now Adam...God is going to hold you responsible. It is your responsibility to authentically love and protect her! Even in prayer, protecting her and your family from the snares of the enemy! You wouldn’t let nobody come in and physically ROB your home would you? But yet spiritually you’re doing it daily when you don’t cover her in fervent consistent prayer! How can she be ALL TO YOU when the devil is steady ATTACKING HER and robbing her? It’s no different than when the enemy attacked Eve in the garden, (it’s the same devil) where the HECK WAS ADAM??? MEN...You can’t be absent from the marriage WHEN THE DEVIL SHOWS UP, leaving her to fight the enemy and battles all by herself, and you AIN’T “NOWHERE” TO BE FOUND! Really????
And Mrs. Eve you’ve got to honor and reverence him as unto God! Make him feel and know that he is the priest, prophet and king of your home! Encourage him! Affirm him daily! He’s got enough to deal with out here trying to provide!! And guess what? YOUR “BREAST” should satisfy him all the days of his life, NOT Delilah OR Miss WHORE At Work! 💄💋💋
I have sooo much more to say, because I’m passionate about this but for another time, Lord help all the married couples that’s reading this post. Help us to honor one another! Help us to cherish the mate that you have given us! I pray the fire of God in marriages! I pray for creative ways and ideas to enhance the romance in the marriage! Help us to be ALL that you’ve created us to be and NOT HOLD BACK OUR SELVES but yet TOTALLY SURRENDER AND COMMIT TO GIVE OUR ALL AND LOVE FIRST TO YOU AND TO OUR SPOUSES! Let’s “commit” to do better!
I would love to hear from you in the comments below! Let me know if you have any questions concerning relationships and marriage.
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